Somewhere i read “You can only learn from a mistake after you admit you’ve made it”.
As soon as you start blaming other people you distance yourself from any possible lesson. We know that it was not easy, but if you courageously stand up and honestly say “This is my mistake and I am responsible for this” the possibilities for learning will move towards you. Admission of a mistake, even if only privately to yourself, makes learning possible by moving the focus away from blame assignment and towards understanding. The people who admit their mistakes easily. They know progress accelerates when they do.
When we correct our own mistake with the help of admitting it, instead of pointing others you automatically feel happy and calm.
With the help of self realisation we can find out the mistake that what we are done and finally get the solution from the power of self introspection. The larger your ambitions, the more dependent you will be on your ability to overcome and learn from your mistakes.
My self experience told me that when you don’t find out the solution from anywhere,
Be calm, Sit quietly and do Self introspection for sometime, you automatically get the solution and you see,after a while you’ll start correcting your own mistake . But when we talk about self introspection I know it is not an easy task, but with the help of Sahajyoga meditation it became.
Because when you get a self realisation you became your own Guru. You start understanding what’s wrong with yourself and correcting yourself.
Now the question arise how to be your own Guru?
For example we look to different things and seek wisdom about ourselves from people that we “think” have insight into our lives.
But The Truth Is…
There is no one better equipped to handle you than well…I know that we think all the answers are outside of us, but they are not.they are all depend on you and your thoughts, and as a fact in last people get fickle when they don’t get it.
So we have to understand that, no one can give you a better solution, only you deals with your own issues perfectly.There is no better guidance than that which comes from your own soul.
And,with the help of self realisation you become your own Guru and you start to correcting yourself. The best teacher out of all the Gurus is You“…
Self-Realization is a discovery to explore your real self. The moment you observe, read, determine, control and command your own mind you tend to experience and realize the Self.And if you know yourself, you can do anything you want to,and start finding your own mistake, unless you have full focus on it, because now you know yourself, and automatically you can discover the ways to achieve whatever you wish or aspire for.
After Self Realization one becomes impartial. One is not partial to the mind, body and speech and that is why they can see their own mistakes.Even if someone hurts you, the feeling of taking revenge does not remain after Self Realization. After attaining Self Realization you obtain right vision through which you see the world as flawless.The belief of ‘I am the Pure soul’ will prevail in every circumstance.After Self Realization, you will experience that you are doing something different with your life than you did before Self Realization. You can know this because you are a Soul and the Soul is the greatest judge in this universe. Now you can find out the problems in your own and meanwhile, start correcting it.
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